I can't speak. I can't breathe.
We've lost him. ...for now.
We just learned she's been telling all sorts of lies to CPS for some time, unbeknownst to us.
All they will say is that they have to "investigate." Until then, all our visitation and custody rights are gone.
I've never known such heartbreak.
Her daughter is moving in with her tomorrow. RJ is probably moving in with us. Because I did the "honest and fair" thing and shared custody with her, she currently has 'physical' custody, and we are just out of luck. I can't believe some of the things I'm hearing from the CPS people. When we say it's wrong, we are just told to wait until they look into it.
We have a meeting tomorrow, but I don't know. It's pretty scary what stories they've told as they begin to unfold. You can definitely see the insanity in them both. How CPS DOESN'T see it is beyond me!! We think she has a restraining order just so we can't be anywhere near him to possibly visit...
Please. PLEASE Lord let this be a nightmare. This can't be real.
We were supposed to pick him up in the morning. He's supposed to come home with me.
no.
NO.
NO!!!!
Please don't tell me that we can't have him. Since he's been born, we've had him. We brought him home the first time at 4 days old. He was/is ours. We've figured out that even between the few of us, hubby and I have had 'custody' of him more than the 3 of them put together!!!
We love him.
He is ours.
What do you mean we can't have him?!!
We love you, Jimmy.
Please don't forget how much your grandparents love you.
:'(
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5 comments:
I'm not sure what I can say that I have not already said!You're in my prayers gurl!
Oh Tammy. :(
Hugs, prayers, and yet again, a hearty suggestion to GET A LAWYER NOW.
Go online and try to find out about family law attorneys in your area. Most have financing options and things to help families of any level of mean get through situations like this.
Oh, also DO NOT try to contact the mother or grandmother. Let the attorney advise you on how to proceed. Advise your son to also restrain himself. If the other party is a wacky as you note, they might be recording phone calls, etc to use against you later.
The more *relaxed and reasonable* you come across in this (even though its a high-adrenaline, highly emotional situation) the BETTER a judge will view things for you.
A family friend went through a custody issue w. her granddaughter.She kept her cool (at least outwardly)hired an attorney and things worked out for her and she & her son have full custody.
Best wishes. I mean BEST!
I am sitting here crying for you and family. It really hurts when you do everything right and try to be fair and they use it and it blows up in your face. I don't even know what to say. It makes no sense at all.
My heart is so broken for you. I know how this feels and nothing but that baby in your arms is going to be a comfort. :( I'm so sorry Tammy.
While I hope that things work out for you as soon as possible, I hope more that somehow you are allowed to see him NOW. You need him and he needs you and your husband too. (and your son!)
I am so sorry that you all are going through this. You will continue to be in my thoughts.
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